40 something student trying to become teacher [Archive] - Teacher Forums

stephenpe

02-18-2006, 07:29 AM

Hi,
I'm trying to do the impossible by working full time (nights), going to college by day, in my early forties, trying to become a middle school math teacher. Anyone in the same boat?:rolleyes:

We need more people like you that seem to have the
drive and passion to do it. I hope you have volunteered
or subbed in a middle school by now. Takes a real adult to
deal with that age. I taught middle school math many years
ago my first year. I liked it. I teach mostly PE but do work
with 5th graders on math some. Good luck. Teaching
is so rewarding. If you like kids and want to help them it
can be the best.

Pauletta

02-27-2006, 01:32 AM

Hi,
I'm trying to do the impossible by working full time (nights), going to college by day, in my early forties, trying to become a middle school math teacher. Anyone in the same boat?:rolleyes:
I'm the same age (early 40s) doing the same thing only working during the day and taking classes at night. It all changes next year when I have to start my practicum and I'm a little nervous about jumping out of my current work rut, but I know it will all be worth it in the end. Do you like your program and how much longer do you have to work and go to school?

taxgirltisha

04-25-2006, 04:56 PM

Hey Tom! Funny that I should find your post here while I'm trying to answer my discussion board question! Well as you know I'm not in my 40s, however I have a similar situation. I too work, go to school, have two kids, a husband and house to take care of. It is VERY hard at times. The hardest part for me is trying to find time outside of class to do my homework. I feel as though I'm neglecting my kids when I'm at home working. I feel for you being in your 40s doing the program, I'm in my late 20s and am a bit intimadated by all of the young faces straight out of high school. I do think however that you....and I both are doing a pretty good job at rollin' with the punches! Keep up the good work! The semester's almost over!

Sassafras

06-14-2006, 05:48 PM

It took me 6 years to finish. I had four children and a truckdriver hubby. I worked during the day as a paraprofessional and went to school nights. You can do it. It will be tough at times but it can be done. Hang it there. :)

I have a job teaching third grade this fall.

elementaryhistoryteacher

06-21-2006, 06:26 AM

I owned my own business while I finished up my certification....my original occupation was paralegal, and I did title exams and background searches for different firms. I also had two children and a house to run as well as a mother who needed constant care.

It's hard, I know. I admire you for wanting to break into education. We need dedicated people like you!

TubbyTeacher

07-13-2006, 11:10 AM

When I was laid off in 2001 from a high tech job in silicon valley, I went into teaching. I was 45. I worked on an emergency credential, and attended credentialing classes at night. It took me 18 months to earn both a multiple and a single subject. You can do it.

The hardest thing for me was fitting into the school social structure. Teaching was easy. The kids were easy, for the most part. The other teachers were the challenge. Based on my age, they made many false assumptions about my personal experiences in the workplace. I think they watched too many episodes of "The Office".

zoeB

01-28-2007, 08:05 AM

Thank you for your post about being a 40-something student working full time while pursuing your teaching degree! I've enjoyed reading all the responses as well. I'm also a student in the midst of changing careers at age 43 with a hubby and young child at home. I have my bachelor's in psychology which I received - oh about 22 years ago. I felt so awkward the first day I signed up for classes at the local community college where most of the students are half my age. (Thank goodness there are a few older people in my education classes - I don't feel so different.) I am glad to hear that there are so many others out there accomplishing the same thing and enjoying their new careers. Probably the hardest thing for me is trying to find a balance between work, school and family time. In the evenings and weekends I'm on the computer a lot which is the time I used to spend with my daughter. She's commented that she "doesn't want me to go to school anymore". I just keep reminding myself that once I become a teacher I'll be able to spend summers with her. Thanks again for your post - it's inspiring to hear about your determination and focus.

javamomma

01-28-2007, 06:17 PM

Good luck to you. I admire your dedication. :)

SLP

03-07-2007, 01:13 PM

landreth2007

03-12-2007, 04:25 PM

Good for you! I'm in my early 40's and can't imagine going back to school. I really admire you. Good Luck!

Carolyn B

03-26-2007, 04:29 PM

Hi,
I'm trying to do the impossible by working full time (nights), going to college by day, in my early forties, trying to become a middle school math teacher. Anyone in the same boat?:rolleyes:

Hi Tom! Yep, I'm a newbie, but an "oldie". I am turning 43 this year and just finished a return to college to become a middle school language arts/science teacher. The irony in this is that my elderly mom did the same thing when she was my age -- she went into teaching. It's in the darn DNA, I guess. I didn't work full time; instead, I chose to go back to school full time and drop out of society. I finished in November and am now subbing my tookus off until I land a permanent full time job. LOVING IT!!

Hang in there, Tom. I admire anyone who can take on that much at once. I was fortunate to have a good support system with my hubby willing to pitch in where I so obviously lagged(re: housecleaning).

I've said it before and I'll say it again, "College is wasted on the youth." But, isn't it fun to be back in school? I felt like I was 20 years old again, walking around campus with a book bag under my arm. Made me feel like a pretty hip old broad.

Nice to meet you - hope you stick around!

Carolyn B

Carolyn B

03-26-2007, 04:35 PM

Stay the course! You've made a good choice!
My suggestion to you is to observe as many teachers as you can fit into your schedule! You can learn so much by watching. You don't have to do this through your college. Students call me all the time & I let them come observe...then the word is out and the calls keep coming. Good teachers like to be observed by teachers in training...we want to share our skills & strategies with you.

I mean it. As determined as I am to be the best I can be, I don't know where I would be if I hadn't the best teachers and support staff in my corner helping me out. I was smart enough to know that my best chance for survival and learning comes from the wisdom of those who've gone before me. I now have a wonderful source of good people to network with, as well.

In a few years, once I've established myself, I hope to be able to serve as a mentor for other student teachers. That's the best gift I can give!

Joan

03-28-2007, 03:41 AM

Good for you! You won't regret it! I student taught at 35. The work is stimulating and the kids are wonderful. My biggest challenge was dealing with the politics!

SLP

03-28-2007, 01:13 PM

OHHHHHH, politics! That's what can get you down. ...and if you've ever been to a PTA meeting, that's where you can really see politics at work. I can't even bring myself to go anymore!

seasaw

04-06-2007, 06:18 PM

I am in a similiar situation. I am attending college full time whle taking care of my family. Husband holds full time job 70 plus hours a week. I had to withdraw from my spring classes, they were on line, due to a 2 week power outage in Jan., very frustrating, now I am a sem. behind. It is hard, when the kids are sick I am the one who has to miss class. This is hard work, but well worth it. Good luck.

landreth2007

04-06-2007, 06:43 PM

I SO admire anyone who can go back to college after having children. My hat is off to you!

Stormer

05-04-2007, 10:48 PM

I am in an older boat. I am in my later 40's and I am going to school days and working nights. I hope to become an earth / space science teacher...
Am I nuts or what? At times I wonder if it is worth it, but something keeps me going......good luck to you.

bcasbcjs

05-05-2007, 03:44 PM

I have a friend who I went to school with that on the day she graduated she turned 51. She had worked in a water treatment plant for 25 years and decided to go into teaching. She now teaches on a Navajo Reservation in Arizona at a charter school. She was a great inspiration. You hang in there. It is worth it.

Stormer

05-05-2007, 11:03 PM

Thanks for the support bcasbcjs.:)
If all goes right, I will be about 51 :eek: also when I graduate.
So, with that, I am registering for more classes this summer....now I know I am nuts....lol :D

bcasbcjs

05-06-2007, 10:00 PM

I think just to go into the teaching field in todays world a person would have to be a bit touched.(haha)

Stormer

05-06-2007, 10:29 PM

Yes, I suppose you are right. But better to do something you like and or love for a few years than to spend all of your years hating what you do....at least I believe that....
But I do need a littler support now and again, as we all do....thanks for the support.....

bcasbcjs

05-08-2007, 11:10 AM

That is what this site is for. Have a great day!

BeyondB

05-09-2007, 09:09 AM

not in the same boat, but you keep up the hard work and i bet you succeed

Little3Dee

05-10-2007, 02:08 PM

I am 37 and working now as an admin assistant making 45K. I have 25k student loans from a private specialty school but no BA degree. I am thinking about going back to school to become an elementary teacher or pre-K teacher. My question is - is it worth it to take the time to go back to school (while working full time), pay for college tuition while still paying back other loans, to make such a small amount of money? College is so expensive these days! Especially where we live, you need post BA classes and in NY a masters degree. I just seems like SO much school for such little pay.

Just curious on anyone's thoughts on this subject?

bcasbcjs

05-14-2007, 12:10 PM

Are you happy at your job? What is making you think about becoming a teacher?

ffincher

05-14-2007, 08:12 PM

Hey Tom - It's great that you decided to go back to school.
I'm in my late 20's, have two small children (4 and 8), a home, a sort-of hubby (so far, I refuse to get married again:p ), I work 45-50 hours a week, and take 18 hours a semester.:eek: My kids understand why I have to finish my degree and finally live my dreams. My daughter and I do our homework together!:D

Stormer

05-15-2007, 06:30 PM

Wow!.. 2 kids, working full time and taking 18 credits?!:eek:
I took 12 credits last semester and worked about 45 hours a week and it about killed me, but then, I'm an old man...:D

Hats off to you! Get it done and over with. Don't try and do this at my age...lol

Stormer

orlandoteacher

08-05-2007, 04:07 PM

Good luck! Keep us posted on how it's going! :)

cat27

08-05-2007, 07:06 PM

I'm not in the same boat at all but my friend was and did very well. I think he got a golden handshake, also known as £6000 when he qualified. I belive he did it over two years. In his second year he resigned from his day job and took work as a Learning Support Assistant. Now he's taken a job in a private school which comes with its own cottage in the school grounds.

christiw

08-10-2007, 10:28 AM

I am surrounded by several returning to school (in their 50's and 60's) doing similar schedules. They are amazing and looking for a second or third career....though there are definitely some downsides to the old aging process, it brings a certain level of patience, understanding, compassion and a wealth of experience....so, hang in there!!! And, the hours you are now keeping will make the hours teaching look great!

Little3Dee

09-04-2007, 01:47 PM

No I am not happy in my current job. In fact, my current employer will pay for 1/2 of my tuition if I major in marketing which makes me feel ill thinking about it! With that offer it made me realize I really do want to go into teaching. I love young children and would enjoy the challenge and creativity it takes to teach them.

And WOW after reading many of these posts I am impressed with the many who are in their 50's and taking on a venture such as this! It really makes me feel like I can do it (at 38) if they can.

My only worry right now is retirement. Getting into further debt with tuition, when I graduate my salary will be making less than I am now and will be too old to get the teacher's pension.

Does anyone else have any thoughts on that?

Roswenth

09-04-2007, 06:59 PM

I'm going to school online through Western Governor's and I'm actually really enjoying it. I have both a bachelors and masters, so I've done the classroom thing to death. Not having to go to class cuts an inordinate amount of time.

It might be something that is much more difficult for someone who isn't really computer friendly, but they try to help a lot with that. I am very computer literate, so adjusting to that was extremely easy for me.

Tina

06-23-2009, 09:55 AM

How did you guys do it at night? Don't you have to student teach?

I too work during the day as a paralegal (not a job I can do at night). I want to go back to school but the internship/practicum part is the one I'm worried about it.

I can't be without my salary or my house will fail.

Ack!! lol :gabby:

teach64angel

06-24-2009, 12:08 PM

i'm doing the same...full time mom, working, going to school. it'
s hard, but it can work...follow your dream!

silvana

06-25-2009, 12:15 AM

wow you all really do impress me it takes real dedication and hard work to bring up a family and work and study good luck to you all =)

Flower Child

07-30-2009, 01:09 PM

Hi Tom! I did the same thing, got my bachelor's degree when I was 38 and have been teaching for several years now. I subbed a lot and did maternitiy leaves until I finally got a job. Here in NY you have to get your masters degree within 5 years of getting a full time job, so I went back to school! I have taught "looping" classes 2 and 3 then 3 and 4. Now, I teach just fourth and love it.

Presently, I find that I am the oldest teacher in our school. All the new hires are twenty something and I feel ancient. There is something to be said about having life experience under your belt when you go into teaching. I feel I have so much more to offer to the students after raising my own kids and living my own life. The new teachers have a lot to learn about teaching and life. You will be surprised at how much you already know, and at how much more patience you have. Good luck and hang in there.

hweber

07-30-2009, 04:17 PM

I did the same thing, returned to school at 45, graduated at 48 and got a job right away. Yes, life experience is a good thing. I also coached soccer for several years before going to school. I have loved almost every minute of my career change.

Mrs. Gangsta

08-01-2009, 10:01 PM

I just finished my first year teaching and even though I got my Bachelors, & teaching cert. as the "old lady" of my class (over 50) I wouldn't trade it for anything. At least once a week dragging my rolling book bag around campus I wondered what I was doing there but I pressed on. This is what I was meant to do (whether it happened later in my life or not). In my classes I tell my students to not let go of dreams. Dreams+Effort=Success. I am now finishing my Masters in Education and am so glad I pressed on. I have the best job in the world and I love my crazy middle schoolers! They need us...and we will be there for them. AS my daughter told me one day "Keep going, mom-days off are for the weak".

olliesmom

08-12-2009, 07:29 AM

Boy, am I glad to see this post! I am 48 and have 2 more years to go for my teaching degree. So, I will be 50, which I have honestly been very worried about getting a job at my age. I will be teaching elementary. I have always run with the younger crowd and have an upbeat personality. I am not worried about fitting in with the teachers, as, I love younger people. I have a 6 year old little boy and he keeps me young.

This "economy thing" really got me motivated. We are in the building home business and either my husband or I needed a job with retirement. I have always worked in the schools in our area as a teacher assistant and was really good at it. I definately wanted a job that I could stay home with my little boy, as I have stayed home with him since the day he was born. Just can't give that up if I don't have too.

I was worried about finding a job, until I have heard that in the next 2-5 years there will be a need for teachers, as many of the "babyboomer" teachers will be retiring.

Are any of you future "older" teachers worried about finding a job?

SS Rocks!

08-12-2009, 02:16 PM

priyaanka

08-12-2009, 10:18 PM

I am not in the same boat. So I have no direct knowledge. But all the best to you in finishing your program.:clap:

hweber

08-13-2009, 03:44 AM

Olliesmom - I did the same thing. I graduated at 48. Now I am in the middle of my master's program. It is well worth it. Good Luck.:)

olliesmom

08-13-2009, 06:47 AM

Thanks for the nice words! I am so very excited, and I know 2 years will go by fast. I hope to work at a smaller school in our town, the teachers seem to get along better to me. In the bigger, "better" schools in the area has a lot of politics. But, I'm sure I could survive happily in those as well.

Vcovarrubiaz

08-13-2009, 06:56 AM

I am sooooooo glad to see I am doing this I am 56 and I am only beginning my education program so I have a way to go I will only have a few years to teach before I retire but I am doing what I love either way I am going to get older either in the field or not. Today is the first day of work for the 2009-2010 year wish me luck I am an aide.

Jsphrsa

08-20-2009, 08:53 AM

40 something trying to finish college while juggling FT job needs advice. Debating whether I should go into teaching. Have done the career assessment thing and teaching to my surprise, is aligned with present course curriculum (Liberal Arts) and interests.

Could someone offer advice on whether I should pursue this career or is it the right fit?

I am looking for something that is fulfilling and career-wise, offers some semblance of security since, I am currently in Retail Management and both these items are severely lacking.

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated on this matter.

Sincerely,
40 something in college looking for something different.

hweber

08-20-2009, 03:41 PM

I am not sure how secure our environment is today. Enrollments are declining and teachers are being riffed all the time. It is a great profession, I wouldn't trade it at all, but there are a lot of late hours and lots of work. But it is so worth it.

Good luck with your decision.

Jsphrsa

08-20-2009, 07:56 PM

Stormer:

You are so right. Have been in business for years now or retail management, and not only do I not get any respect for my profession from the public or superiors (corporate snobs), the job is utterly dissatisfying.

The industry and job offers nothing more than endless hours and ever increasing expectations -- that can never be met. It's always about more money, more sales, more money, you get the picture.

The business lends itself to hyper-optimism and unrelenting greed. A combination that I must say, and to quote an old boss: You can always do better." In other words, one can never do good enough, because we always chasing more dollars.

So, I would welcome working long hours and putting up with critical parents and bureaucrats with an agenda that may or may not be focused on the bottom-line -- at least, I can get recognition or satisfaction if one child or teenager succeeds -- rather than ever-increasing expectations that have absolutely no socially redeeming value other than increasing share holder value and feeling less than human because I "occupy" a profession that doesn't require substantial education.

Like the people at corporate are performing brain surgery running a retail business?

Thanks,
Joe

jzig

11-29-2009, 06:35 PM

Hi all., We relocated here post Katrina and my career has kind of changed. I was teadhing at Tulane. for about 2 years, I homeschooled my special needs son in Austin. I am now thinking of getting my TX teaching license in special education.

I have some ? and I thought the best place to get some advice is other teachers.

Is anyone familiar with the accelerated programs?
I am looking at on-line programs? one is called e-tools or webcentric. If anyone knows about it, I would like to know what they think?

Also, as employment is difficult everywhere. What is the market really like for new teachers in Austin?
I would appreciate any advice?

we came here to rebuild our lives and things have really taken a spin.
any advice, ideas would be great.